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Obituary Examples

Nine complete obituaries you can copy and adapt: short newspaper notices, standard ones, and longer life stories, for a mother, father, spouse, grandparent, sibling or friend. Every example is written to be changed: swap the names and dates and it is yours.
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How to use these examples

Every obituary below is complete and fictional. The people, their churches, the funeral homes and the employers are invented, and only the towns are real, so you can lift the structure and phrasing without worrying about copying a real family’s words.

The fastest way to use them: find the example closest to your situation, copy it, then replace the details line by line from top to bottom. Working that way, a first draft goes quickly. If you would rather answer questions and have the wording built for you, Reposa writes a first draft free, and it puts that draft straight into the funeral program for you to edit.

Short obituaries (60–120 words)

Use these when the newspaper charges by the line, or when the family wants something brief and dignified. Everything essential is here: name, age, dates, closest family, and where to come.

Short obituary: mother

101 words · newspaper notice

Margaret Ann Foley, 84, of Beloit, Wisconsin, died peacefully at home on March 4, 2026, surrounded by her family.

Born June 12, 1941 in Rockford, Illinois, to Thomas and Alice Kearney, Margaret worked for twenty-nine years as a school librarian at Beloit Memorial. She loved her garden, her grandchildren, and a good crossword.

She is survived by her children, Daniel (Sara) and Kathleen Ruiz; five grandchildren; and her sister, Ruth Kearney. She was preceded in death by her husband, Edward.

A funeral Mass will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Saturday, March 14, at St. Brigid of the Prairie Catholic Church.

Short obituary: father

86 words · newspaper notice

Robert James Whitaker, 79, of Marietta, Georgia, passed away on January 18, 2026, after a short illness.

Bob was born September 2, 1946 in Chattanooga, Tennessee. He served four years in the United States Navy, then spent thirty-one years as a lineman for the power company. He never missed a grandchild’s ball game.

He is survived by his wife of fifty-four years, Carol; his sons, Michael and Andrew (Priya); and four grandchildren.

Visitation will be held Friday from 5 to 7 p.m. at Ashcroft-Pruitt Funeral Home.

Short obituary: no service planned

71 words · when the family is keeping it private

Eleanor “Nell” Whitcomb, 91, of Portland, Maine, died on May 2, 2026.

Nell was born in Bangor on April 9, 1935, taught fourth grade for thirty-four years, and read every mystery novel the public library owned.

She is survived by her daughter, Frances Doyle, and two granddaughters.

At Nell’s request, there will be no formal service. The family asks that you plant something, or tell someone a good story about her.

Standard obituaries (150–300 words)

This is the length most funeral homes publish and most families are happiest with. There is room for the shape of a life without it becoming a biography.

Standard obituary: mother and grandmother

287 words

Margaret Ann Foley, 84, of Beloit, Wisconsin, died peacefully at her home on Wednesday, March 4, 2026, with her children beside her.

Margaret was born on June 12, 1941 in Rockford, Illinois, the second of four children of Thomas and Alice Kearney. She graduated from Rockford East High School in 1959 and from the University of Wisconsin–Whitewater in 1963, where she met Edward Foley at a dance she had not wanted to attend. They married the following spring and were together for fifty-six years.

Margaret spent twenty-nine years as the librarian at Beloit Memorial High School. Generations of students knew her as the person who found them the book they did not know they were looking for. She was a member of St. Brigid of the Prairie Catholic Church, sang in the choir for thirty years, and volunteered at the Caritas food pantry every Thursday morning.

At home she grew tomatoes she could never give away fast enough, worked the crossword in ink, and kept a standing Sunday phone call with each of her children.

She is survived by her son, Daniel Foley (Sara), of Madison; her daughter, Kathleen Ruiz (Miguel), of Chicago; five grandchildren, Anna, Thomas, Elena, Jack and Rosa; and her sister, Ruth Kearney of Rockford. She was preceded in death by her husband, Edward, in 2020, and by her brothers, Thomas and Patrick.

A funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10:00 a.m. on Saturday, March 14, at St. Brigid of the Prairie Catholic Church, with burial to follow at St. Brigid Parish Cemetery. Visitation will be held Friday evening from 5 to 7 p.m. at Hollister-Brandt Funeral Home.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the Caritas food pantry.

Standard obituary: husband and father

229 words

Robert James “Bob” Whitaker, 79, of Marietta, Georgia, died on Sunday, January 18, 2026, after a short illness.

Bob was born on September 2, 1946 in Chattanooga, Tennessee, to James and Ruby Whitaker. He graduated from Brainerd High School in 1964 and enlisted in the United States Navy, serving four years aboard the USS Yorktown.

He came home, married Carol Ann Simmons in 1971, and went to work as a lineman for the power company, where he stayed for thirty-one years. He was proud of that work and of the men he worked alongside, particularly during the ice storm of 1993, when he was gone from home for eleven days.

Bob coached Little League for twelve seasons. He kept a garden he described as “mostly weeds,” fished the Etowah River badly and happily, and was the first person to arrive whenever anyone needed help moving.

He is survived by Carol, his wife of fifty-four years; his sons, Michael Whitaker of Marietta and Andrew Whitaker (Priya) of Atlanta; four grandchildren, Ella, Sam, Nina and Wren; and his sister, Judy Coleman. He was preceded in death by his parents and his brother, Wayne.

Visitation will be held Friday, January 23, from 5 to 7 p.m. at Ashcroft-Pruitt Funeral Home. A service will follow at 11:00 a.m. Saturday at Laurel Creek United Methodist Church, with military honors at Etowah Ridge Veterans Cemetery.

Standard obituary: wife

208 words

Deborah Lynn Okafor, 61, of Silver Spring, Maryland, died on February 27, 2026, at home, surrounded by her family, after two years of living well with cancer.

Debbie was born on August 14, 1964 in Newark, New Jersey, to Frank and Loretta Bianchi. She earned her nursing degree from Rutgers in 1986 and spent thirty-four years in labor and delivery, the last twenty-two of them at a community hospital in Silver Spring. She estimated she had helped bring more than four thousand children into the world, and she remembered a startling number of them.

She met Chidi Okafor in 1990 in a hospital cafeteria and married him fourteen months later. They raised three children, hosted an open house every New Year’s Day, and traveled to a new national park every summer until she could not.

Debbie was funny in a way that took people by surprise, kept an immaculate house and a chaotic car, and could not walk past a dog without stopping.

She is survived by her husband, Chidi; her children, Amara, Ifeanyi and Grace; her mother, Loretta Bianchi; and her brother, Frank Bianchi Jr.

A celebration of Debbie’s life will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Saturday, March 7, at Woodside Park. Please wear something bright.

Standard obituary: grandmother

182 words

Beatrice “Bea” Coleman, 96, of Charleston, South Carolina, went home to be with the Lord on April 11, 2026.

Mother Coleman was born on November 3, 1929 in Orangeburg, South Carolina, to the late Willie and Ida Mae Simmons. She moved to Charleston at nineteen, married Deacon Samuel Coleman in 1951, and together they raised six children on Nassau Street.

She joined Greater Mercy Seat Missionary Baptist Church in 1952 and never left it. She served on the usher board for forty-one years, cooked for every repast anyone could remember, and could quiet a room of grandchildren with a single look.

She is survived by her children, Samuel Jr., Gloria Hayes, Bernice Cooper, Ronald and Vanessa Coleman; twenty-two grandchildren; forty-one great-grandchildren; nine great-great-grandchildren; and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. She was preceded in death by her husband, Deacon Samuel Coleman, and her son, Michael.

Homegoing services will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, April 18, at Greater Mercy Seat Missionary Baptist Church. The family will receive friends Friday from 4 to 6 p.m. at Pringle-Wade Home for Funerals.

Full obituaries (about 300–450 words)

Longer obituaries suit a funeral home website, a memorial page, or the inside spread of a program, where there is no per-line cost. They also give you room for the details that make someone recognizable.

Full obituary: a long life, told warmly

400 words

Harold “Hal” Vestergaard, 88, of Duluth, Minnesota, died on the morning of October 6, 2026, in the hospital, with his daughters holding his hands and arguing gently about the radio station.

Hal was born on February 19, 1938 in Two Harbors, Minnesota, the only child of Anders and Ingrid Vestergaard, who had come from Denmark eleven years earlier with a trunk and no English. He grew up on the lake, took his first job at fifteen unloading ore boats, and talked about that summer for the next seventy years.

He served in the Army from 1958 to 1961, stationed in Germany, where he learned to make a passable schnitzel and an unforgivable cup of coffee. He returned to Duluth, enrolled at UMD on the GI Bill, and graduated in 1965 with a degree in civil engineering.

Hal joined the Minnesota Department of Transportation in 1966 and stayed thirty-four years. He worked on bridges. He was quietly, immovably proud of that, and could not drive over one without telling you who built it and what was wrong with it.

He married Joan Petersen in 1967 at Nordlys Lutheran Church, where he stayed a member for the rest of his life. They raised three daughters in the house on Woodland Avenue, took the same two weeks at the same cabin every August, and had, by every account including their own, an ordinary and very happy marriage.

Hal fished without much success, split more firewood than any household could use, and taught all three daughters and seven grandchildren to drive a stick shift in the Kmart parking lot. He read history. He fixed things that were not broken. He answered the phone by saying his own last name, which none of his grandchildren ever understood.

Joan died in 2021. He missed her plainly and constantly and never once made anyone else responsible for it.

He is survived by his daughters, Karin Vestergaard of Minneapolis, Anne Sorensen (Peter) of Duluth, and Lisa Vestergaard-Ruiz (Carlos) of Denver; seven grandchildren, Ingrid, Anders, Nils, Sofia, Mateo, June and Hal; and two great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his wife, Joan, and his parents.

A memorial service will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, October 17, at Nordlys Lutheran Church, with a reception in the fellowship hall following. Burial will be private.

Memorials may be directed to the Duluth Public Library or to Nordlys Lutheran Church.

Full obituary: a life cut short

299 words · written for a younger person

Nathaniel “Nate” Alonzo Reyes, 34, of Tucson, Arizona, died on July 22, 2026, in a cycling accident on Mount Lemmon.

Nate was born on May 30, 1992 in Tucson, the youngest child of Alonzo and Maria Reyes. He was, from the beginning, the loudest and the kindest person in every room he entered, and he did not consider these to be in tension.

He graduated from Salpointe Catholic High School in 2010 and from the University of Arizona in 2014 with a degree in environmental science. He worked for a desert conservation nonprofit for six years and had recently joined Pima County’s water resources office, where he was three months into a job he described, without irony, as the best one he could imagine.

Nate rode his bike everywhere, including places where a bike was not the sensible choice. He cooked enormous meals for people who had not asked for them. He coached a middle-school robotics team on Thursday evenings for five years and never once mentioned it unless asked.

He married Sofia Trejo in 2021 at her grandmother’s house in Nogales, in a ceremony that ran ninety minutes long because too many people wanted to speak.

He is survived by his wife, Sofia; his parents, Alonzo and Maria Reyes; his sisters, Camila Reyes and Isabel Ochoa (Danny); his nephews, Mateo and Luca; and more friends than this notice can hold.

A vigil will be held at 6:00 p.m. on Friday, July 31, at St. Brendan of the Rincons Catholic Church. A funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10:00 a.m. on Saturday, August 1, at the same church.

In place of flowers, the family asks that you donate to a local bike-safety group, or that you take someone you love on a long ride and stop for breakfast halfway.

Obituary examples by relationship

The tone and the details change depending on who you are writing about. Each of these pages has three or four further complete examples written specifically for that relationship, plus the phrasing families most often ask for.

Adapting an example to your family

Work top to bottom and change one thing at a time. In order, you are replacing:

What to replace, in order

  • Full legal name · with the nickname in quotation marks if they used one
  • Age, town, date of death · the first sentence carries all three
  • Date and place of birth, and parents' names
  • School, military service, work · one sentence each is plenty
  • Marriage · who, when, where, and how long
  • Two or three specific things they actually did · this is the part people remember
  • Survivors, in order · spouse, children, grandchildren, then siblings
  • Preceded in death by
  • Service details · day, date, time, venue, address
  • Donations or 'in lieu of flowers'

The one part worth slowing down for

The survivors list is where families most often make a mistake they then have to live with. Write it out on paper first, read it aloud, and have one other person in the family check it before it goes anywhere. Spouses of children are traditionally named in parentheses. Step-children, in-laws and long-term partners should be included the way the family actually thinks of them, not the way a form would.

Two or three specific details beat ten general ones

“She loved her family” is true of nearly everyone and tells a reader nothing. “She kept a standing Sunday phone call with each of her children” is the same fact, and it is the sentence people will remember. If you are stuck, ask two family members for the first thing that comes to mind, and use whatever they say.

Mistakes that are easy to avoid

Instead ofWriteWhy
Passed away after a courageous battleDied on March 4 at homePlain language reads as respect. Illness metaphors imply someone can lose by not trying hard enough.
Survived by too many to nameNamed immediate family, then "and many loving nieces and nephews"People look for their own name. Name the close family properly, then group the rest warmly.
Home address of the surviving spouseThe funeral home or church address onlyPublished obituaries are used by burglars who know the family will be out during the service.
Full date of birth plus mother’s maiden nameYear of birth, or the full date without the maiden nameThose two facts together are the standard security questions on a bank account.
A list of every job they ever heldThe one or two that mattered to themLength is not the same as honor, and long obituaries get skimmed.

One more: check the service details twice, on the day you submit them. Times move. More than one family has had to phone thirty people because the newspaper printed the visitation hour they were originally given.

What to do with the obituary once it is written

The same text usually needs to go to four places: the funeral home, the newspaper, an online memorial page, and the funeral program itself. Each wants it slightly differently. The newspaper wants it short, and the program wants it laid out to fit a panel.

Reposa keeps one copy and produces all of them: a formatted obituary sheet, a plain-text version to paste into the newspaper’s form, and the obituary set into the funeral program at the right size, with the order of service and matching prayer cards alongside it.

Common questions

How long should an obituary be?
Most obituaries run 150 to 300 words. Newspapers charge by the line, so a paid print notice is usually 60 to 120 words, while the version on the funeral home’s website or in the program can run longer. If you are writing one obituary for both, write the longer version first and cut it down. That is much easier than padding a short one out.
Who is usually named in an obituary?
Immediate family in this order: spouse or partner, children and their spouses, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, then parents and siblings. People who died earlier are listed separately as 'preceded in death by'. You do not have to name everyone, and 'many loving nieces and nephews' is normal and completely acceptable.
Should the cause of death be included?
It is entirely your choice, and many families leave it out. If you do include it, a single clause is enough: 'after a long illness', 'peacefully at home', 'following a short illness'. There is no obligation to say more, and no one reading it will think less of the family for keeping it private.
Can I write an obituary if I am not the next of kin?
Yes. Anyone can write it, but the family should read and approve it before it is published, especially the list of survivors. Funeral homes and newspapers will normally ask who is authorizing publication.
Is it acceptable to use one of these examples?
Yes, that is exactly what they are for. Change the names, dates and details and the wording is yours to use. Obituaries follow a well-worn form on purpose; nobody is looking for originality, they are looking for the facts said kindly.
What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?
A death notice is the short paid announcement that states the name, dates and service details. An obituary is the longer piece that tells the story of the person’s life. Newspapers usually sell both, and the death notice is much cheaper.